What parents need to know about MeetMe

MeetMe is an app that allows users to connect and meet with strangers in their area, introducing them to new "friends" instead of connecting with people they already know, like other apps. After registering with an email address or an existing Facebook account, users can create a profile, browse through the newsfeed of nearby people, and choose to message other MeetMe users.

The app promotes itself as a way to "meet friends, make friends, chat, flirt... maybe even find a date online!" However, this also means that it functions as a dating app, which can expose teens to various risks.

Is MeetMe Safe for Young People? 

The app is rated 18+ in app stores, but teens can easily bypass this age restriction with a simple tap of confirmation. Here are some features that could potentially expose teens to unsafe situations.

1.      AskMe

This feature lets users ask anonymous questions, which might seem like a fun way to break the ice. However, the lack of accountability behind these anonymous interactions can lead to offensive or inappropriate messages, turning a seemingly innocent exchange into an opportunity for cyberbullying.

2.      The "Mystery Admirer"

The "Mystery Admirer" game notifies users that someone secretly likes them, but the identity of the admirer remains hidden. Users are then shown a few photos and asked to guess who their admirer might be. If the guess is wrong, the mystery remains unsolved. It encourages anonymous interactions, which can be problematic for teens seeking validation from strangers.

3.      MeetMe Live

In MeetMe Live users broadcast themselves and interact with others in real time. Viewers can send virtual gifts to streamers, which can be exchanged for money or credits, blurring the lines between entertainment and monetary incentives.

4.      QuickPick.

Similar to Tinder's swipe feature, MeetMe's "QuickPick" allows users to quickly browse through profiles and decide if they're interested in someone based solely on their profile photo.

5.      Location-Based Matching

One of the most alarming features of MeetMe is its location-based matching. The app connects users based on their proximity, which means that strangers can easily determine whether your teen is nearby.

6.      Popularity Ratings

In MeetMe, popularity through public ratings ranges from "very low" to "very high." This rating system is visible on user profiles and is based on the user's level of activity on the app. The platform even encourages users to pay for features like "step into the spotlight" to gain more visibility or play games to attract secret admirers. For teens, this constant pressure to seek approval from strangers can be emotionally damaging and make them more susceptible to manipulation or risky behavior.

MeetMe's Specific Risks for Teens

• Stranger Danger. MeetMe promotes interaction with strangers, a significant risk for teens who may not have the maturity or judgment to safely navigate these connections who might be predators or and scammers.
• Inappropriate Content. Teens to stumble upon material that is inappropriate for their age, such as nudity or offensive language, which can negatively impact their emotional and moral development.
• Privacy Concerns. MeetMe requires users to share personal information and photos to create a profile, but the app's privacy settings are not secure by default. This means that teens may unknowingly share sensitive information with strangers, exposing themselves to identity theft, cyberbullying, or real-world threats.

What You Can Control on MeetMe

By default, MeetMe's privacy settings allow anyone to view your teen's posts and photos. This openness makes it easier for others to track their location and monitor their activities.

How to Adjust Privacy Settings

To take control of privacy on MeetMe, follow these steps:

1. Tap the "Me" icon at the bottom of the screen.
2. Go to "Settings."
3. Select "Privacy and Content."
4. Toggle off "Include me in Meet." This will remove your teen's profile from appearing in the main stream of profiles.

How to Delete a MeetMe Account

If you or your teen decide that MeetMe isn't safe or suitable, you can delete the account by following these steps:

1. Log in to the MeetMe account.
2. Go to "Settings" or "Account Settings."
3. Find the option to "Deactivate Account" or "Delete Account."
4. Follow the prompts to confirm account deletion.

Once the account is deleted, all information and activities will be permanently removed.

How to Block and Report Someone on MeetMe

If your teen encounters inappropriate behavior or someone makes them uncomfortable, it's important to know how to block or report that user:

·       To block someone:

1. Go to the user's profile.
2. Tap the three dots (…) in the top-right corner.
3. Select "Block" from the menu.
4.  

·       To report someone:

1. Visit the user's profile page.
2. Tap the three dots (…) and choose "Report."
3. Follow the instructions to explain why you're reporting the user.

MeetMe will review the report and take action if necessary.

How to Keep Your Teen Safe on MeetMe: Tips for Parents

While avoiding MeetMe altogether may be the best choice for safety, if you allow your teen to use the app, there are steps you can take to protect them:

1.     Have Open Conversations: Talk to your teen about the risks of interacting with strangers online. Encourage them to make real-life friendships rather than seeking connections with people they don't know.

2.     Monitor Their Usage: Regularly check their activity on the app and review the personal information they share.

3.     Encourage Safe Behavior: Remind them to avoid sharing photos or details that reveal specific locations or sensitive information.

4.     Use Parental Control Tools: Consider installing parental control apps to monitor and restrict inappropriate content.

Bitdefender Parental Control lets you easily set up limits, block harmful websites, and monitor your children's online activity, giving you peace of mind without hovering. It's included in all Bitdefender paid subscriptions—so you already have it, you just need to use it.

FAQs

 What is the MeetMe app used for?

MeetMe is a social app that connects users with new people nearby. It uses GPS technology to show users others in their area, similar to apps like Tinder and Snapchat's Snap Map.

Is MeetMe a dating app?

Yes, MeetMe is primarily a dating app, even though it is not explicitly marketed as such. It largely facilitates online hookups, similar to its sister app, Skout.

How old do you have to be to use MeetMe?

MeetMe is intended for users aged 18 and above, but teens can easily bypass this restriction.